Husband looking for help understanding

I need some help with my wife's fibromyalgia. I have no idea how to deal with her chronic pain. I don't understand what it feels like to have fibromyalgia and its sad. I hate hearing that she is hurting all the time. I get she is hurting but to hear it everyday day multiple times is destroying us. I don't want to sound selfish but we cant even be intimate anymore. I am walking on eggshells because I'm afraid to say anything. Is there a place to go to find other men who are in the same position? I hate not being able to express how I feel without upsetting her. Again I don't want to be rude but I need help !!!!!

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