Recent content by blue paradise

Let’s please be careful about posting too much gory details. There are folks here who are struggling with suicidal ideation and self-harm that might be triggered by reading these details. Rather, can we direct our discussion to the solutions or methods that helped us deal with these desperate...

Ooops! Sorry, double posted the above message....

I downloaded the “Unrest” documentary on Myalgic Encephalomyelitis. Whew! It was well done, but I couldn’t watch it in one sitting. Very emotional. I hope the documentary brings about more awareness of ME, and more funding towards research. Does Fibromyalgia have an equivalent in...

Received a copy of a newly published book in the mail. One of my art works (that I created on a "good day") was used in the book. I'm very happy. Even having these debilitating illnesses won't totally stop my artistic drive. I just won't let it. ��

Congratulations, TipBill! You did it! You got through the SS disability application process! I hope that the ssdi gives you and your family a bit of financial relief. One bit of advice - since you mentioned earlier that you are married (and assuming that you are filing jointly, and your base...

MelCat, I also applied for Social Security disability benefits and was sent to a psychiatrist by SSA for a consultative exam (CE). For me the exam was quite comprehensive and thorough. The dr. spent about 30 mins. interviewing me where I was given the opportunity to tell him about my "brain...

"Creepy"? You gals are too nice. What occurred was SEXUAL HARRASSMENT in my eyes. If it had been me in the driver's seat, I would have returned immediately to the school and have a serious talk with the director/owner and tell him/her exactly what happened. "Forgetmenot", if you weren't...

Received a hand-written letter (remember those?) from my dear 89-year old aunt. In the inspiring letter she wrote of highlights from the past year. Yes, it definitely is the "little things in life that ARE the the big things". Just ask any wise older person who has been around the block. :)

I need a frequent hot shower in the morning to help with the pain and stiffness of my lower-back due to DDD. What I find useful are a plastic shower stool, so I don't need to stand while showering. Also, have switched out my regular shower head for a Waterpik handheld-type with a long hose...

I don't think I should give medical advice, esp. since I'm not a dr., and I don't even know your medical history. But what you mentioned above concerns me. If I were you, I'd definitely make an appt. to see my pcp. Even if it was found to be nothing serious, better safe than sorry. Take care.

Wishing everyone a wonderful New Year, with hopes of better health and more happiness in our lives! Peace and positive thinking!! :)

Forgetmenot, I'm sure your children are very happy to have you as their mom. :) I have no children, but have a bunch of wonderful nephews and nieces. This week's smile - Finally found the perfect Christmas gift for my niece. Free shipping and gift wrapping, too. Just anticipating the joy...

Seasons Greetings to all, and peace and joy to those who celebrate the birth of Jesus and the true meaning of Christmas. May you be able to put aside any pains and worries for a moment, and your holidays be filled with love and happiness shared with family and friends. Peace! :)

If anyone else is wondering about this, I just wrote my 15th posting and noticed that I now finally have private mail option. And I have been a member of this forum for 4 months. :)

I got this idea from another forum and thought it a great idea to start here. Sometimes our health issues can really get the better of us and bring us down. It is at these low points that thinking about something that makes me smile or feel grateful will help bring me out of my slump...