First go to your User CP, upper left hand corner of topic's across top of page.
Click on that and your information options opens up. The list is down left side of page.
Go to Settings and Options, under this heading find Edit Options, and click on it.
Scroll down to Private Messaging
(Check box) for Enable Private Messages
Go down to Visitor Messages
If you want to (check box) that says limit usage of visitor messages to Contacts and Moderators.
If you don't you can receive messages from anyone. Go to bottom of page and check save changes.
Once you have done this you will see a place on left side of your page that says send a new message,
click on that and a page opens where you can send a private message.
i will need you to set up private msg as i would like to give you my personal emai address. when we talk in visitor msg everyone can see it. there is a post out there telling you how to do it.
today is not a good day for me at all. one hour ago i was standing in my back yard with my dog and my legs gave out on me. i fell to the ground and hurt my rib under my arm. i laid there for a minute and tried to get back up i fell to the ground again. i was stupid and did not have my cell phone with me to call my wife to come out and help me inside the house.
i want you and your wife to start that daily log book and keep it going. it's important to prove what you are telling your doctors. this way they will listen to you as you have dates and times.
Please try to control your choice of words in your posts. This forum while we encourage venting if it helps you to do so, also does not allow the use of swear words or violent actions. Our forum tries hard to be uplifting and helpful and not a scary spot where beginners might be turned off by bad words or hateful talk.
I hope coming here helps you and in turn you can help us maintain a safe forum for all who come here.
i totally understand you wanting to do search and rescue tonight. im so glad you are listening to her.
it's best that you wait until morning and stay out of the way right now. then you can get to the red cross and see what you can do. please dont over do it. we dont want you hurt. your a good man and we know it. stay calm and reduce your pain. im sure your not getting sleep tonight. try to rest before you go to red cross. god bless you!