- Nov 23, 2021
- DX FIBRO
I am literally at my whit's end... my husband (whom i love dearly and is great most of the time) has decided my 2 girls still living with me(21, 22 years old) need to become more responsible and pay rent. $100 each per month. The younger one is in college full time works when she can has her own health issues we are currently trying to get diagnosed pays her own car and insurance, the older works full time pays car and insurance has multiple anxiety issues and a lot of debt. I am put in the middle while i agree they should/need to pay rent i feel we should wait till they are more stable, he on the other hand feels if we don't push them, they will never be able to survive leaving home ever. We will be selling the house and moving to Florida without the girls when my father in law passes, who isn't in great health. My father in law ( mean old guy) whom we live with finds issues with everything I or the girls do, from cooking a meal to taking showers, complains all the time making me and my girls feel un welcome. We agreed to move in with him to help out when my hubby's mom died, if I knew then what I know now it would never have happened. My girls feel rent is un fair being they aren't even allowed to have their boy friends over ( my hubby hates both of them and refuses to have them in the house) and don't want to /cant pay. not to mention his father said absolutely no sleep overs ever. Meanwhile I'm put in the middle with all the fighting, and stress and still trying to work full time. My whole body is killing me and now every time I eat I'm nauseous. I don't really need advise guess I am just venting. All this with the holidays I am literally about to run away from the whole mess.