Hi FracturedRain & welcome:
Unique & deeply intriguing name! Rain breaking up light into rainbow colours. Breaking up.... Pain & beauty...
Well, some fibromites have the feeling they want to call fibro an "impostor syndrome", maybe because they are feeling like you are, maybe because they are feeling that others see us as impostors - which is the devilish thing about this askew sense of self.
Impostor syndrome actually means people doubting their actual skills, talents etc.
As our pain is similarly invisible, not "provable", the diagnosis relies mainly on our self report. So we have to believe ourselves.
The docs are nowadays recommended and urged by pain researchers to "believe" that we are in pain. Because it is very rare that people pretend, much rarer than people underrating themselves.
A meme might help to express this feeling, attached.
(I unfortunately don't need it often any more.)
But also one of the sets of fibro criteria, so we can go thru the motions of the self-diagnosis again and again, also attached.
I've now re-sorted the way I describe my day on my JayCS's fibro blog using these ACR 2016 criteria. Helps me see where I stand.
This is one part of the development of my symptom description. It started with trying to put across to my colleagues what perspective I have for working. It was sort of putting Christine Miserandino's "Spoon Theory" into more scaleable terms.
She starts off with let's say 10 spoons a day. In comparison I used to have 100 spoons a day, pre-fibro, seemingly endless.
Fibro and most doc treatments brought these down down to 10 a day. Better methods slowly brought that up to about 35.
That meant that I can manage about 3,5 hours of activity per day, as opposed to 10 hours pre-fibro. (I put it as 35%)
MCAS took me down to 10% again, many more supps etc. took the many side symptoms down, but not the fatigue.
Chinese acupuncture is now helping to get the fatigue down, energy up to 20-30%, hopefully increasing...
However it's more complicated, I've found recently. I realized I no longer have energy boosts, like pre-MCAS, where I had 100% of my pre-fibro energy for a short time, sometimes minutes, sometimes hours.
So I've started to distinguish that now I usually only have about 70-80% of my previous energy for 20-30% of the previous time.
The rest (70-80%) of the time my energy is at maybe about 20-50%??, hard to measure as essentially I need to rest, which means nothing else than sitting on my carpet leant against my couch, alone, however with my laptop - typing and reading is no problem, as long as I can pace it myself.
So what does that all mean? Essentially only this detailed spoon / energy count can clarify that at the moment I'm nowhere near being able to work again realistically. My subjective feeling and hope always tells me: . These numbers tell me: No chance.
I'm lucky to have a wife at my side who sees my pain better than I do. She isn't so lucky, for her it'd be better not to see it so much.