Mooji, hello and welcome to the forum.
the doctors don’t give me any answers,
Do you mean by this that there has been no actual diagnosis? Have you had a lot of tests for various things that could be causing this (arthritis, lupus, MS, etc)?
What kind of answers do you want to get from them?
he said they were very weird symptoms
What are the specific symptoms he said were weird?
i am open to any suggestions on pain reduction if possible, or any help really on even you view on what’s happening to me, feeling very worried & stressed about all this
My first suggesting is that you do everything...
.everything...that you can do to reduce the stress and worrying.
This is causing you more pain and more problems, and by worrying you are only making things worse for yourself. Now, I know it's hard just to turn it off. But do things that can help. Distract yourself! Get out into nature. Come here and vent if that will help. Tell us your worries so we can help. Remember that information is power, and we have a ton of information here in this forum from many different people.
Do things you love to do or think about a new hobby you can do. Tell yourself that you may as well not worry about something you don't even know for sure is going to happen. And that even if you have fibro it is not a death sentence or anything that terrible bnecause you can learn how to live with it and still have a life. We will help you with that, and be here for you to support you and encourage all your efforts in that direction. There are so many things you can do to help yourself.....you are not powerless.
We can't give you a view on what is happening because we are not doctors and any opinion we gave would be essentially worthless. But I can give you a whole lot of suggestions on things you can start doing right now that will help. Even if you don't actually turn out to have fibromyalgia they may help with whatever is going on with you.
You can start with this:
I am not a doctor or anything, just a person who has lived with fibromyalgia for several years now and has done a lot of research and trial and error experimentation. What follows is just basics. There are a lot of variations. You will find your own versions of everything I say, as this is not a...
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