Hello Everyone,
I apologize in advance if this post will be hectic however English is my second language. I just had a big fight with my husband because he promised to his brother that we are going to attend his wedding in Pakistan this year along with our children aged 4 and 1 year old. I've just been diagnosed with fibro in June so I'm still trying to come to the terms that I'm going to be in pain for probably the rest of my life. I just feel like my husband does not understand what I'm going through every day. I can't walk for more than 5 minutes and my legs are constantly burning. How am I supposed to travel 8 hours by plane with two young children while being in pain to country that has completely different weather, food (I suffer from IBS) and time zone! It's like fibro sufferers worst nightmare.When I explained to my husband that he can go but he should not assume that I will also come with the kids he said that I'm just headache. I was crying for an hour because he's acting like I'm the problem but was I asking for this condition? I'm the one that is in pain and I actually got fibro after traumatic birth of our second daughter. Am I being unreasonable? Would anyone of you just go for it and travel? Fibro flare can be terrifying let alone imagine being on the other side of the world far from the comfort of your home.
I apologize in advance if this post will be hectic however English is my second language. I just had a big fight with my husband because he promised to his brother that we are going to attend his wedding in Pakistan this year along with our children aged 4 and 1 year old. I've just been diagnosed with fibro in June so I'm still trying to come to the terms that I'm going to be in pain for probably the rest of my life. I just feel like my husband does not understand what I'm going through every day. I can't walk for more than 5 minutes and my legs are constantly burning. How am I supposed to travel 8 hours by plane with two young children while being in pain to country that has completely different weather, food (I suffer from IBS) and time zone! It's like fibro sufferers worst nightmare.When I explained to my husband that he can go but he should not assume that I will also come with the kids he said that I'm just headache. I was crying for an hour because he's acting like I'm the problem but was I asking for this condition? I'm the one that is in pain and I actually got fibro after traumatic birth of our second daughter. Am I being unreasonable? Would anyone of you just go for it and travel? Fibro flare can be terrifying let alone imagine being on the other side of the world far from the comfort of your home.