Welcome salopez.
Willow said it quite eloquently. Your boyfriend loves YOU, not your fibromyalgia. Please be patient with him, if you hate what fibro does to you you can't expect him to embrace fibro. We sometimes hate our illness so much we confuse it with our feelings for ourselves and forget there really is more to us too live!
I don't think anyone who hasn't exsperiances this crapoy disease can really understand how truely horrific it is, that doesn't meen they can't have compasion.
It took me along time to learn about and accept my disease, I don't think my husband ever truely will and that's OK, I understand stand how he can drink beer and love it but that doesn't change my feelings for him!
I have found posting in "general support" will get you more answers and help, so go there and post for help or look through old post, I promise your not alone on this question.
Sorry I'm long winded. I can make a short story long!
Welcome to you. ; )