Dear Jemima,
Thank you so much for your response! It's like a light bulb going off. This is it for two people under my roof. You mentioned allodynia and I read about it and realized that it foots the bill even more for my mom than for me. She is elderly and has numerous serious health problems. We have brought up her skin pain issues with many of her physicians, plus it has unavoidably come up on examinations and tests which caused her pain due to being touched or having to remove her sock or have a ultrasound wand passed over her skin, etc...None of them ever mentioned allodynia! Eureka! You just diagnosed one of my mom's really worrisome problems. Now for me, when I wash dishes, my fingertips hurt and feel as though there are tiny shards poking in them. Maybe it does go along with the fibro for me.
With my mom, who has a long list of health woes including rheumatoid arthritis Sjogren's and many more, this explains what her rheumatologist, dermatologist, cardiologist, and primary internist never hit on. She is now considering trying gabapentin again to see if she can get some relief. Thank you so very much!