diamond
Legendary member
- Joined
- Sep 18, 2015
- Messages
- 1,548
- Reason
- DX FIBRO
- Diagnosis
- 01/2008
- Country
- UK
- State
- anywhere
Hi,
I know we are all different ages and all different situations...some married some living with a partner some single.
For any of you how does it make you feel when your partner goes out socially or persuing solo hobbies several days a week.
I have always encouraged my partner with his activities but how much is too much.....when would you start to feel a bit hurt and neglected because your health means you cant occupy yourself endlessly alone....well only in ways that are not particularly fulfilling to do repeatedly.
I so miss my independence of being able to drive and take myself off anywhere i choose or go for walks and even though i have always loved time to myself i am less able to be busy so the time can drag.
All my friends are physically able bodied and many have drifted away over the years.
I know some of you work and i am sure appreciate alone time to rest and recouperate so it would be interesting to hear how fibro affects your relationships socially.
I know we are all different ages and all different situations...some married some living with a partner some single.
For any of you how does it make you feel when your partner goes out socially or persuing solo hobbies several days a week.
I have always encouraged my partner with his activities but how much is too much.....when would you start to feel a bit hurt and neglected because your health means you cant occupy yourself endlessly alone....well only in ways that are not particularly fulfilling to do repeatedly.
I so miss my independence of being able to drive and take myself off anywhere i choose or go for walks and even though i have always loved time to myself i am less able to be busy so the time can drag.
All my friends are physically able bodied and many have drifted away over the years.
I know some of you work and i am sure appreciate alone time to rest and recouperate so it would be interesting to hear how fibro affects your relationships socially.