1sweed
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- DX FIBRO
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- 01/1995
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- US
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- PA
Good Day To You all.
In answer to your question we think it is "Yes." Sometimes she is very pleasent and other times I want to pull my hair out. Today we went for bloodwork. I had to park the car and told her to get out and tell me if I was in the spot right and wait for me. She climbs out of the car and says it is slippery and icy. So I said, get back in and I will find somwhere's else to park.
But no, she climbs over a snowbank instead of walking over a bit to a driveway and takes off walking down the street. So I had to pull out as I thought I might be blocking that driveway and hurry down the street to park. Then hurry up the street to hold her arm to keep her from falling.
We got the bloodwork done and started back to the car with her complaining about how slippery it was and I said because your boots have no traction. Then the you know what hit the fan and I got blamed for everything she could think of, and I findly had to say "Stop it," drather loudly and she was mad the whole way home.
Got her home and things had calmed down a bit so I ask if she wanted me to make her a pot of coffee. She said there is no place to plug it in, and I suggested the top of her washer as there was a electric plug there. (she had used one on the stove before and stove bit the dust.) Well her face looked nasty and got very red, and I was in trouble for telling her what to do. I said mama, I don't need to make it, just suggesting a safe place to put the pot. No, I was telling her what to do and I was moving her stuff around and on and on she went, so I said I am going home. I put on my coat and left. Two hours later I called her to see if she was okay, and she was sweet as pie and glad I had called her. Maybe I am the crazy one. lol
Anyways, I took time to make some homemade spagetti sauce and had spagetti for supper. I am getting my writing done so I can watch a movie tonight and relax. So even thou half my day was a mess, the rest is going to be fun and quiet and nice.
I will admit to all of you that all this stress has got me worried that I am going to have a relapes in my fibro, and I don't want that to happen. I prayed and prayed, when I got home for the strength and wisdom to deal with this and to say the right words and do the best I can with God's help. For I know I can not do this alone.
Thanks for listening, as I write this all down and share it with all of you. Hope you all had a good day today, and have another one tomarrow!
In answer to your question we think it is "Yes." Sometimes she is very pleasent and other times I want to pull my hair out. Today we went for bloodwork. I had to park the car and told her to get out and tell me if I was in the spot right and wait for me. She climbs out of the car and says it is slippery and icy. So I said, get back in and I will find somwhere's else to park.
But no, she climbs over a snowbank instead of walking over a bit to a driveway and takes off walking down the street. So I had to pull out as I thought I might be blocking that driveway and hurry down the street to park. Then hurry up the street to hold her arm to keep her from falling.
We got the bloodwork done and started back to the car with her complaining about how slippery it was and I said because your boots have no traction. Then the you know what hit the fan and I got blamed for everything she could think of, and I findly had to say "Stop it," drather loudly and she was mad the whole way home.
Got her home and things had calmed down a bit so I ask if she wanted me to make her a pot of coffee. She said there is no place to plug it in, and I suggested the top of her washer as there was a electric plug there. (she had used one on the stove before and stove bit the dust.) Well her face looked nasty and got very red, and I was in trouble for telling her what to do. I said mama, I don't need to make it, just suggesting a safe place to put the pot. No, I was telling her what to do and I was moving her stuff around and on and on she went, so I said I am going home. I put on my coat and left. Two hours later I called her to see if she was okay, and she was sweet as pie and glad I had called her. Maybe I am the crazy one. lol
Anyways, I took time to make some homemade spagetti sauce and had spagetti for supper. I am getting my writing done so I can watch a movie tonight and relax. So even thou half my day was a mess, the rest is going to be fun and quiet and nice.
I will admit to all of you that all this stress has got me worried that I am going to have a relapes in my fibro, and I don't want that to happen. I prayed and prayed, when I got home for the strength and wisdom to deal with this and to say the right words and do the best I can with God's help. For I know I can not do this alone.
Thanks for listening, as I write this all down and share it with all of you. Hope you all had a good day today, and have another one tomarrow!