Sandian
Member
- Joined
- Oct 29, 2019
- Messages
- 21
- Reason
- DX FIBRO
- Diagnosis
- 04/2019
- Country
- UK
- State
- UK
My hubby is generally very good with my fibro but sometimes I find myself getting stressed trying to please everyone - which in turn makes the fibro worse!
We have a 2 year old granddaughter and another grandchild due any moment. Having just had Christmas with all the social activities that brings I am naturally quite tired but with our granchild's arrival imminent we are due to go and look after grandchild number one when the time comes. My hubby is outwardly fine with this but I know from his manner that it's really bothering him that I am about to "overdo" things again and end up having to rest and be "out of things " for a while afterwards. I love spending time with our granddaughter and yes it does wear me out which means that I'm not much company for a while afterwards but it's not that often - They live about an hour away so we see her about once a fortnight. Am I being unreasonable?
We have a 2 year old granddaughter and another grandchild due any moment. Having just had Christmas with all the social activities that brings I am naturally quite tired but with our granchild's arrival imminent we are due to go and look after grandchild number one when the time comes. My hubby is outwardly fine with this but I know from his manner that it's really bothering him that I am about to "overdo" things again and end up having to rest and be "out of things " for a while afterwards. I love spending time with our granddaughter and yes it does wear me out which means that I'm not much company for a while afterwards but it's not that often - They live about an hour away so we see her about once a fortnight. Am I being unreasonable?